Saturday, November 3, 2007

More than enough manna!

A few years ago, we were living in Little Elm/Frisco, Tx and my Mom lived in Fort Worth. She often made Monday trips to my house and would take me and the kids out for shopping and lunch. One Monday she decided to bring her friend Kathy with her so they could hit Sam Moon and other great shopping places in Frisco. Josiah was barely two years old and Ava Beth was a newborn. Josiah could never say Kathy but for some reason began to call her Coffee. That was it! The name stuck so we decided to spell it Kaufee and make it special. I always refer to Kathy as my Fairy God Mother because she does things for me only a Fairy God Mother could do. Kathy doesn't have kids or grand kids so we don't mind if she gives all of her love and attention to us because she is a wonderful blessing to our family.

Thursday night she called and said, "Can I come see you this weekend?" And I said, "Of course." So right now I am blogging and Kathy is downstairs preparing stuff for tonight's supper she is cooking. She is an amazing cook and knows everything about food. Tonight we are having amazing Hors d'oeuvres ( I don't even know what's it's called but it's something Italian) chicken catchatori and a nice glass of shiraz. I can't wait! I was planning on making meatloaf tonight. Ha! When she got here, I was getting ready to start supper and she let me know that she was taking us out for Mexican food and then while we were eating Mexican food, she told me that she wanted to go to Wal Mart to get some stuff. This past week has been a tight week for us on the groceries so I had every single meal planned. The only thing I NEEDED, the only thing I HAD TO HAVE was milk. So we walk in to Wal Mart and she tells me to get what I need and I tell her I only need milk and maybe some toothe paste but I had money for it so she did not need to worry about it. But she decides to tell me to get what I WANT instead of what I NEED. Well, I felt kind of weird just throwing stuff in the basket because I knew she was paying. So she started throwing stuff in the basket for me. I THOUGHT she was buying stuff for her. When I saw her put every Holiday scent of Glad candles in the basket, I THOUGHT they were for her. When she told me to pick out some shower gel (stuff I don't buy), I just smiled. She knows I'm obsessed with cleaning products so she bought some cleaning stuff. Ava Beth has about every single Barbie Island Princess snack, cereal and product there is and Josiah has every snack he's ever dreamed of. Oh and she bought a huge thing of Kleenex. I said, "Kathy, I don't buy Kleenex! We use toilet paper and plus no one has a runny nose!" I now have a box of Kleenex in every room. :) We have juice, Yoohoos, donuts, bagels, cheese and so much more. I truly felt like I was grocery shopping with Jesus! :)

Then she asked me what I needed to get the kids. I knew at this point that she would not let me get away with saying, "Nothing." So I told her they needed socks and underwear. We have both but now that it is sock weather, they need new ones for this year. Somehow when I was getting socks and underwear for the kids, she asked me if I needed panties. My friend Gina knows that the other day I said to her, " I need underwear but I hate to spend money on that stuff." I never told Kathy that! As we are standing there in the underwear section, she is looking at some for herself and then says, "What size do you wear?" And then I tried again, "Kathy, you do not need to buy me underwear!" Well, she got it out of me. I figured she put a couple of pairs in the basket. But when I got home, I saw that she had bought seven pairs!

Needless to say, I am overwhelmed. Honestly, we were totally fine. We didn't NEED anything but Milk and maybe some toothpaste but God decided to give enough manna for quite a while. And while I was posting yesterday's blog, she was driving here. I even said, "You swear you did not see my blog??" The thing is, I know she got a huge blessing out of doing what she did. Last night as we were leaving Wal Mart, three hours later, I told her that I did not have any words to say and that I felt like thank you was not enough. I think I will go down to the kitchen right now and eat. I'm not hungry but there is so much stuff to choose from that there's no excuse not to!

I love you Kaufee. My Mom is so blessed to have a friend like you and I'm so blessed that she brought you into our lives. Wow! I had so much fun sitting outside on the patio drinking Hot Chocolate and talking about food, restaurants and places we'd like to travel or places YOU have already traveled until 3am in the morning! You can't imagine how bad I needed that. AND ZEKE SLEPT ALL NIGHT!!!!! Of course the night I go to bed at 3:30am, he sleeps all night! :)

10 comments:

Timmarie said...

Amanda, your last two post have spoken to me so greatly. I'm so glad the Lord used you to encourage me during this rough spot in my life. And I am rejoicing for your great WalMart blessing with Kaufee. How fun to be on either end (giving or receiving) that blessing.

Anonymous said...

What a blessing! God is so good. Blessed to be a blessing. I hope to be able to bless someone like that some day. I'm so happy for you.

Christy said...

Praise God! I love to hear things like this and I know God will pour into her this week for pouring into your lives...

Anonymous said...

Addendum from Kaufee (which I hope you will post) right under your blog. I have had a lot of hurt in my life, disappointments, sadness and pain. I only learned the hard way that in those times...GIVE. If you give to the "least of these" which in my book is someone who needs or wants something, it is as if you are giving to God. Wants and needs are two different things......but sometimes we just need to want. There have been times that I have had absolutely nothing and have needed everything. There were times that I searched for change in my couch, bottom of my purse etc to use for gas. Times I was invited to birthay parties and had no gift to give, so I would not go (one of the parties was for Ava Beth FYI). In those empty times, God said give and I will bless your emptyness with fullness. I never understood that concept for a long time. Through the years it has become apparent that I am a giver because God gave me that gift. I thank God for those empty times because He has blessed me more than I could ever imagine. I love to see the look on someone's face when they receive something they did not expect. It truly makes me just as happy.
God always puts Mandi and her family on my heart. He always lets me know when things are tough for them. We all make bad and good choices and aside from all that.....judgement is not a part of this story. If you give a homeless person 20 bucks....you don't judge them and say oh, he will probably buy liquor with it....so what....you in good faith gave to someone without and you will be blessed. It is the act of giving that you are responsible for, not the action of the receiver. Some may say I had an agenda.....yep I did...to be a blessing. To not ask for anything in return but to be a blessing. I am not expecting God to reward me, Mandi to fall all over me or someone to say what a wonderful person. I did something that I felt led to do. Something that was in my heart, humble and not with pride.
In those times God speaks to me and gives me peace about other things in my life of which I should give. Mandi said that this time when she saw me, I looked different, I acted different and just said these amazing things about me. I didn't tell her that some issues in my life that were a result of being selfish have been healed. I never thought I had a purpose and I never thought God could use me........the confirmation of Mandi's words, spoke truth to me and I now believe that I have purpose and God is using me. This was before the shopping I might add. Now, I had the money to splurge on them and I didn't need anything myself. My bills are paid for the month and I have groceries. What else could I use the money for......right???
The look on 2 little beautiful children's faces was a blessing for me. Josiah would say Kaufee I would like that or Ava Beth would say Kaufee I love dat Bobbie allen pincess. Josiah has played nonstop with his Thomas the trains and Ava Beth has dug in her purse for her Barbie cell phone for 2 days. That makes me smile and all the big problems in my life melted away this weekend. Words can not explain the joy of Mandi's face when I had to snatch stuff out of her hand and put it in the basked because she said she didn't need it. Everything I bought, she said no I don't need it. But.........she wanted it and I wanted to give it to her. I didn't need to give it, I wanted to give it. This weekend was one of the best weekends I have ever had. I felt loved and not because I bought something but I gave myself and those people love me...they truly love me. What a blessed feeling...now, you can't beat that with a stick.
Mandi, you and your family bless me including your mother. Karen is one of my favorite people in the whole world and NO ONE does my hair as wonderful as her. She always says something to me that has me stop and think, and she makes me richer. Thank God He gave me a friend that fixes me up and has kids that love me. Karen, I thank God for you daily. Thank you for letting me share in your life a little. None of you have ever asked for anything and you love me.
I remember singing this as a kid in church.....PRAISE GOD FROM WHOM ALL BLESSINGS FLOW. I am truly blessed.

Karla Porter Archer said...

oh, Amanda, I have found you again!

Your life sounds like it totally parallels our life from 2 years ago. So much of what you've been through recently, we went through as well.

I'm catching back up with things on your blog, slowly, but surely.

Blessings to you!
Karla

Amy... said...

I enjoyed reading your post as well as Kaufee's:) God's church is an amazing place to be... love, amy

Paula said...

WOW is all I can say! I am in tears.

Kids Cakes and Life said...

Amanda, I can't even tell you how many times my mom has taken me to the store to do the same. And it really is like shopping with Jesus or at least an angel. Let me tell you from growing up in a ministers home, this is how God blesses what you are doing for His kingdom. You may never know where the next meal is coming from but you will never go hungry. God is amazing and it is so cool to see how he works although it can be scary at times. I hope your family is doing well. :) Richelle

Anonymous said...

P.S. quote from the kids...."Mommy, her name is not Kathy, it's Kaufee".

Erin said...

Thanks, I really needed that!!! Isn't our God amazing!! He knows exactly what we need and what we want!